If you have been reading or following this Blog, you will know that I was working as a General Manager at a fabulous hotel (The Caves) for four years. However, as fabulous as that experience was - it took alot out of me and I became too stressed, too frenetic, with not an ounce of real time for myself. I decided that it was just time to move on as that kind of stress is just not worth it. So I gave in a month's notice in August and left in September. Since then it has been such a mix of emotions. It's a combination of feeling like "what happened to that stress" and getting used to all this extra time. It has been quite a shock to the body -- in fact, I have gotten sick twice since September with flu. Some friends say "it's your body adjusting and coming down from that roller-coaster ride." I have toyed with the idea of writing a book on my experience as a GM, as I do feel it would translate to a fantastic read! We will see. I am not going to rush into anything, but I have always loved writing and this could be 'the time' - the time that I now find myself having more and more of....a time to just create and meditate, and do yoga, chill....and just "be."
I have been put back in a place of love, a time to re-bond with my sister and spend more time with my nephew....a time to do more fun things with my hubby, a time to catch up with my great and genuine friends, a time to travel - both here in Jamaica and overseas....a time to really focus on this Blog and build it more. While I am on that, what an interesting adventure so far with this Blog. I never knew how to input half these html codes when I started the Blog four and half months ago, I didn't even know what a widget was much less how to manage the layout of a Blog on Blogger....and I have learnt so much. There is so much more to learn and I embrace it. I also have to credit A Beautiful Mess for inspiring me to start a Blog as it was their wonderful Blog Course that got me started.
This is my year to re-group, catch myself and just breathe. What is this year to you? It is not too late to start that long awaited project, get promoted, travel to that special place (like Jamaica lol), write that book....I mean what I am saying is that there is NO time like now. In reflecting back to the past four years, I have to say it was a great time, but I am happy I am now in another realm of my life.


































LOVE YOUR BLOG! Looking forward to hearing a lot more about what you're up to!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, so appreciate you stopping by!
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The title of the blog drew me in from Saturday Sharefest. Loved the blog. You have a great voice for writing. The pictures are enticing. I am retiring in a year and a half and can't wait for the stress relief. As a high school math teacher, I know it will be an enormous one. Your friends are so right about why you got sick after leaving the job. Enjoy.
ReplyDeleteDear Sheila, I have just gone to your Blog to realise I have your book The Mindstalker on my Kindle and have started it, what a book - you are a very talented writer!
DeleteJeanine
Wow Sheila,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the very kind words! Your wonderful time to 'relax and chill' is coming soon - thank you also for stopping by, and I am going now to check out your Blog -
All the best!
Jeanine
The pictures are GORGEOUS! Stopping by from SITS Sharefest on Twitter. :)
ReplyDeleteSo nice of you to stop by, hope you can make it to Jamaica one day!
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This is my year for that, too. Isn't it nice and incredibly strange to not have job stress? I think I invent stress sometimes b/c I'm not used to being not stressed at all!
ReplyDeleteHi Annie!
DeleteEnjoy the time....I know what you mean, I'm sure the same thing is happening to me (inventing the stress!)
All the best,
Jeanine
Hi Jeanine, I'm a late visitor from the sharefest. This is a courageous move on your part and I'm sure it will pay off getting to spend time with your family more. The job sounded amazing. This is my year to take my fitness passion to another level...thus the new blog in December. I too took the ecourse and found it most helpful. You're ahead of me with the photos though. I'm taking it one day at a time with this blogging thing. Your pics are great! Followed via bloglovin! I blog over at http://rxfitnesslady.com. Happy sharing!
ReplyDeleteHi Joi!
DeleteThanks you for stopping by. Sounds like you are in the same boat as I am with taking time off....would love
to hear more about the fitness and your Blog so I will be checking it out. It was quite a decision to leave The Caves
as I was doing so well with my career, but it just wasn't worth the stress at any level, so far so good...I'm enjoying this time. Enjoy your time too.
All the best,
Jeanine
It can be hard to make such a major life change, but it sounds like it was a wise decision you made. Happy SITS day! :-)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on a fresh start for another phase of your life. Enjoy it!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on being featured on SITS!
I've read this before. It's still a wonderful blog. Enjoy your SITS Day. I hope you've enjoyed your new adventure.
ReplyDeleteI hope wonderful things are happening for you.
ReplyDeleteEveryone needs a fresh start once in awhile. Enjoy your time. Learning to not be stressed is a skill all in itself! I really enjoy your blog. Have a great SITS Day!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful and inspiring post!
ReplyDeleteHave a great SITS day..!
Thank you so much for sharing this. It is so wonderful that you are taking the time to regroup and enjoy your life. Thanks for inspiring people to do the same. Happt SITS Day and great blog.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post. Happy SITS Day and thanks for the inspiration to enjoy your life.
ReplyDeleteI love that you took the leap to lead the life you want and not be led by the life/career you had! Very inspiring :)
ReplyDeleteHappy SITS day!
I enjoyed your photos. We visited Jamaica a few years ago and had a wonderful trip. I think it's great that you have some time for yourself now and can decompress. It's so easy to get caught in the rat race.
ReplyDeleteHappy SITS day!
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Loved the idea of there is no time like NOW. I totally agree.. there is no sense in putting things off until later.. time will never wait for us...stopping by from SITS :)
ReplyDeleteI love reading stories about people who reinvent their lives and take on brand new challenges! I hope you write your book! And you definitely have a new follower! :)
ReplyDeleteSo happy to see you featured toda Jeanine! I love that you are having some time to change gears. I feel that way with blogging...it is a such a nice place to be and I can still enjoy Jamacian sunsets thanks to you :)
ReplyDeleteJamaica looks so beautiful! I hope I get to visit some day! Looking forward to reading more of your blog.
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